We have a tendency to believe, as a society, so that technique really only matters to a woman, which pretty much anything works for a man — just give it a few quick tugs and…oops…see what we mean?
But that’s true in the slightest, and in reality, we’re doing men (and ourselves) a great disservice if we only leave them the fundamentals while us girls go in search of the greatest Nirvana of pleasure and how to get there.
There are a lot of techniques sex and the big’O’ could be enhanced because of our XY counterparts, and we are here to show you the way.
It is not a race, and his orgasm will be much more intense if we hang fire with this last thrust. Yes, men want to climax (do not we all?) But there’s no rush. Take him just before the crucial moment and slow things down again. Whether you are manually or orally stimulating him, you are in control of the moves, so once you feel he’s about to reach his finale, return, let things calm down a little, and then replicate. Each time you do this the tension builds a little more, so when you do decide to have mercy and let him orgasm, then it will be extreme!
If you’re using a new partner it may take some time to judge if the time is right, so to speak, therefore both the preceding proposal and this one is going to take training, but they are so worth it. When a guy is going to orgasm, his testicles will really grow closer to his body, so give nature a helping hand and gently place the palm of your hands beneath his balls and press them gently up against his torso. This is a good move for making things even stronger.
Using the Back Door
Many guys have a pathological fear of anything going anywhere close to their buttocks, so before you attempt this you MUST request his consent. Consent works both ways, so never do whatever he’s uncomfortable with. But…if he does say yes, it will be well worth it because hidden inside, as you are probably aware, is his prostate, and massaging that may be mind-blowing for a guy (and fairly satisfying for a woman). Using plenty of lube, you may either attempt a finger or a little vibe or dildo, gently slide it inside and…well…play around a bit. If you have the time right, and you can do this while he is climaxing, he’ll be delirious with sexual enthusiasm.
Oftentimes, both men and women will orgasm with their eyes closed, return, and oblivious to anything and everything else. But you may add a certain frisson and eroticism to the whole thing by looking into each other’s eyes as you climax. Seeing those feelings playing in front of you may be incredibly sensual. Another way to add intimacy is to kiss while one or both of you’re orgasming — a deep, sensual kiss may add a whole other layer to what is already an awesome feeling. And if you’re able to manage it, do .
Piggy in the Middle
There is a space between the penis and the anus called the perineum, and also this little area is a goldmine for men’s orgasms. Perfect for during both manual and oral stimulation, just applying some tension to it’ll make things a whole lot more volatile for him, and has even been proven to result in several orgasms for a man, since yes…they could have them also.
As we come closer to orgasm, our breathing obviously quickens. But take a peek from Tantra…slow your breathing straight down, and attempt to match the others’ breath. Not only is that a very romantic thing to do, particularly if paired with eye to eye contact, but in addition, it increases the flow of oxygen into the genitals, which makes a orgasm even more intense.
Sex should never be a race to the finishing line, and taking the time to make things more pleasurable to your partner will pay dividends for you because there aren’t many things more arousing than watching your lover in the throes of ecstasy that you have created.
Post time: Sep-12-2020